Disclaimer: Originally published in October 2017. It is being republished since it still remains an interesting topic till today. 

Though the Supreme Court has given out a ruling recognising the third gender, it is upsetting that we still haven’t accepted them. In fact it is sad that they had to be recognized at the first place, this goes on to explain the amount of marginalism this community has faced.

While parts of the country go on to scorn them, there is a community in south India that truly celebrates the transgender identity in full vigour and enthusiasm.

Every year, between April and May, thousands of transgenders from across the country come together at the Koothandavar Temple in Villupuram district of Tamil Nadu for the annual Koovagam Festival which runs for 18 days.

The Koothandavar Temple is dedicated to Aravan, the son of Arjuna and the Naga princess Ulupi.

In the Mahabharatha, there came a development on the 18th day where the Pandavas needed to sacrifice someone from themselves to Goddess Kali to win the battle. Aravan agreed but wanted his last wish to be fulfilled before his death, of being married.

With a single day’s marriage and widowhood ahead for the pending life, no woman agreed to wed Aravan, hence Krishna took Mohini avatar and married Aravan, the next day as promised Aravan sacrificed himself.

A large number of trangenders take part in this festival where they dress up as brides of Aravan and enact these events from the epic during the 18 day festival.

Lord Aravan
The legend has it

An idol of Lord Aravan is being carried for the annual festival.

Transgenders shopping
Buying happiness

The festivities have begun as the brides shop for their necessities.

We may not be the same, but we are equal.

The priest ties a sacred thread around the eunuch’s neck as part of a ritual.

In your face, patriarchy

The transgender community in its full heartiness as the celebrations continue.

The bride
I want to change the world and I will.

A Transgender bride decked up for her wedding.

Transgender brides
The colours of pride

Brides following a ritual at the Koovagam festival.

Dancing to the tunes of merriment

The 18-day festivities are filled with dance, music etc.

Miss Koovagam
The world is the same, your vision creates differences.

Two transgender brides in conversation as one looks on.

Enactment of a scene but also the reality that exists.

A Eunuch out of her emotions says that Lord Aravan has come inside her and jumps.

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Lord Aravan has died, just as her wishes always have.

As the Marriage ends, the mourning begins.

Transgenders doing "Oppari"
The beauty of the enactment

Transgenders doing “Oppari” (a means to express their sadness at a person’s death).

Just as dreams are shattered

Bangles are broken.

Wish their lives would be colorful though

The transgenders embrace white clothes to symbolize widowhood.


Aravan is sacrificed, and the brides have turned into widows, as the 18-day fervour ends, their only celebration ends with it.

Look, See, Know

This transgender festival (also the biggest in Asia) is an eye-opener for all of us.

For many transgender women, it is so significant because it is their only chance to get married.

Across the country, transgender people are looked down upon because of their sexuality. Most of them are forced into prostitution for availing income.

Although some states, most notably Tamil Nadu, have legislated measures for transgender inclusion, much still remains to be done.

It is festivals like Koovagam that gives hope not just to the transgender community but sends out a message to all of us in general.

“To embrace who we are and also accept what others are to us.”

Image Credits: Google Images

Sources: Wikipedia, HuffPost, The Hindu 

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  1. “Patriarchy”, yeah right. Blame it all on guys. Ppl would accept transgenders if they did not clap their hands at our faces and demand money while riding public transport (esp. trains) and while at small shops. Immediate excuse is ‘they were forced to due to lack of jobs and due to oppression’ blah blah etc. but reality is that perception and image are not going to change overnight.

    From the point of view of women, guys have it made but from the point of view of men, it’s women who have is easy. Men have to deal with the burden of finance most of the time in a family and pray their spouse does not indulge in wasteful expenditure. Worse, there are women who immediately get angry on being denied their 200th costume or diamond earring and run off to their parents’ house from whom the husband gets an extra earful and is subsequently forced to work extra shifts to bear the unnecessary expense.

    Bah. Fed up of this nonsense.


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