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Every nine-year-old wants to grow up just to enjoy the freedom of doing things on their own and make their decisions independently. It seems so easy and exciting. Like every child, adulting was always coveted for me.
But now, when I am finally in that phase, I feel my bubble bursting. It is definitely not easy and now, I want to go back in time and enjoy my childhood again.
Turning 18 seems like a ticket to explore the world, do crazy adventures, get your driving license, and live like there’s no tomorrow. But life hits you soon! In no time, you start feeling the pressure to make a career, work hard, network, get internships, make money and settle.
People expect this to happen very soon, that too without any failures. Decision-making on your own is now scary. You feel vulnerable. “What if I make a wrong choice? What if it does not work out? Who will guide me now? Will I be able to cope all by myself?” These are the questions, doubts and insecurities constantly looming in your mind.
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This is the reality. The “happening and carefree” part of adulting is short-lived and the responsibilities kick in too soon. Adulting hits very hard especially when you see people around you or those of your age doing much better in life and moving ahead at a pace a lot faster than you.
It is then that you feel the pressure and expect everything to happen all at once. But what I have learned from my experiences till now, is to have patience and believe in yourself.
Sometimes not knowing what to do or not having goals as clear as your friends is okay, you will eventually figure it out. Being too harsh on yourself that your mental or physical health deteriorates is not going to solve your problems.
Sources: Bloggers’ own opinion
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